Girlfriend Furious After Boyfriend Divorces Their Two Cats

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    Font - AITB for serving my girlfriends cat divorce papers?
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    Smile - I [26M] and my girlfriend [24F] have been dating for 2 years now. We have recently taken the next steps in our relationship and moved in together.
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    Font - Everything was going great until this recent event. We both have cats and our pets now live alongside us in our new apartment. I am very protective of my cat, but I really do not like my girlfriends cat. I feel like
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    Font - she is always watching me, and whenever I try to even stroke or approach her, she hisses at me. By comparison my cat is extremely friendly, snuggles with me and is just lovely to everyone.
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    Font - My girlfriend is a bit eccentric and normally I love that about her, but recently she keeps mentioning wanting a pet marriage. I am not a fan of this idea. First of all, who marries cats? Second
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    Facial expression - of all I don't really want my cat to be married to hers. I dont like it. So I have made it clear to her that I am not for this idea.
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    Smile - However, a few nights ago I came home from work and my gf had dressed the cats up and was in the middle of performing a marriage ceremony. I was really
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    Font - angry, she had gone behind my back when I had specifically told her not to. So, I felt I had to stoop to her level and have served her with divorce papers for our cats. She was really upset
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    Font - and hasnt spoken to me for 24 hours. She has even been sleeping in a seperate room. I don't know what to do. I can't help but feel I am not the villain in this story. So reddit, AITB for not wanting my cat to marry hers?
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    Smile - MrsDink You say you don't like her cat, but how does your cat feel about their new spouse? Don't be one of those interfering in laws.
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    Smile - Strawberry_sugar_ Was it a forced marriage though? Did his cat consent to be married?
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    Rectangle - narniasreal INFO: did either of you ask the cats for their opinions? My judgment depends on whether the cats want to be married. If they do, you divorcing them is just mean.
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    Font - RamsLams Dude. If you're actually mad... it's a funny thing she did between cats. They aren't actually married. Why in the world do you care? She's literally just having fun? It's like getting mad bcus she married your stuff animals while playing... Most toddlers don't even stress about that.. YTB
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    Font - KittyMimi Dude not wanting his cat to get married to hers is an absolutely bizarre boundary, and a red flag to me Imao. It would be very difficult for me (and apparently OP's gf) to respect that. People are certainly allowed to have boundaries, but not all of them are "normal."

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